7 tricks men use in dating more than one lady without being caught...

By Janet Machuka::::::::::::::::::::::::::::}

You can never understand why some men cheat. But to them, they do not count it as cheating since most of them know how to handle the situation. I mean handling two ladies in their lives is not a big deal to them.

“I find it such a cool idea having two ladies in my life. Once I am bored with one, I can always lean on the other,” he said as he boldly explained how he does it.

Of course he did not meet the two ladies at the same time. He had one before he could fall for the other one year later.

But the question is, how do men manage things in this kind of relationship?


Saving their full names on his phone

First thing they ensure they do not forget is saving the full names of the two ladies on his phone. This will cut off any suspicion if any of the ladies go through their phones. Most times, such type of men make sure they have deleted each and every conversation they have had on their phones. This is simply done to avoid any scandal happening.


Calling them by one name

When they want to be romantic, they will call you ‘babe’, ‘hun’, 'dear' and not by their names. He continued to explain that there was a time he forgot and called one of the ladies by the name of the other. “She got furious but I explained to her it is because he just had a call from the other lady.”

Why at all should you even have two ladies in your life while you claim you love them both making your life very unbearable?!


Unavailability

“I have been so busy with work. That’s why I have not called you.” Two, three or even four days! Where were you all those 96hours without a text or a call? If you really do know you have someone special in your life, why do you have to 'maltreat' her like that?

Once you get her, you flatter her with words and little actions to calm her down or rather make her feel loved, wanted and cared for. Yet, you have been busy having a secret moment with the other lady.


He always claims he is broke


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He will constantly tell any of the ladies he is broke the very moment the issue of money comes up.

“If you had asked me earlier, I would have sent you the cash before spending it on some unimportant things”

If her woman asks for cash after a weekend, he will claim he used all of it during the weekend. They try their best to evade money issues since it is expensive for them to fully take care of both ladies materialistically.


Sweet words

They tend to use sweet words, especially words from love songs. They look for the most romantic and amorous songs to send to both of them. Then they will claim that’s how much they love you.

Due to the fact that ladies listen too much to their guys whether blank promises or not, they easily fall for their words.

Ladies, it is your turn to reign and tumble. Hear and listen a lot of the crap but be cautious. Be wise enough to make out when something unusual is going on in your love life.


She is my friend

Sometimes it will happen that either of the ladies makes a call to the guy in the presence of the other. It is either the guy will not pick the call or he will pick it but ask to call back later.

In some situations, the guy might pick the call, talk to the lady in a friendly manner and still claim she is just a friend. He might call her sweetheart but will try to defend himself that she has been a close friend to him for long.

“If you think she is my side chic, then why am l here with you?'’ He might calm you with those words, but hello lady, wake up from your deep slumber now.


Constantly avoiding public attention

In our era, most relationships have become too much of social media. Adding of photos of either partner for public view has become rampant. But men with more than one relationship try to avoid it as much as possible.

He will not like his photo to be added on Instagram, Facebook or as a WhatsApp profile picture by any of the ladies. This is because it might raise eyebrows.

Okay. You can continue to be undecided as to who to love but remember; love is not about creating confusion. Get one and feel satisfied. Otherwise ladies, be careful. You might be blindly caring for another woman’s man.

SOURCE: standardmedia.co.ke